Wedding Proposal: The Never To Do List
Ever wonder why some people or guys never get the chance to say “I Do” in front of the altar for the reason that they were dumped on their engagement rather than be on cloud nine after hearing the sweet “Yes.”? See below to find out if you have done such awful things:
Never Make It Public.
As seemingly romantic as it might sound, it is not a good idea to propose in front of a wooing crowd. Why? It might be heartbreaking for you to hear the word “No” when she dumps you for being rude. Or maybe it might force her to say yes when she believes she is not yet ready for the married life and just for the sake that you wont be embarrassed she’d likely say yes. Unfair, right?
Don’t Expect Her To Say Yes Immediately.
You’re asking a question worth more than a million and you’re asking the person you would soon spend eternity with. It is an important decision to make. Never expect her to say yes immediately because there will still be instances where she would say the magic word. Ultimately, it is a very important question so never try to get a heads up that she’ll be ready. Let her have all the time she needs in the world to process everything.
Never Propose Early.
It might be just a rush of feelings. Take the time to delve into those feelings and prove to yourself and to her that you two are truly in love with each other. Proposing early on in the relationship only proves that you do not have plans for the future and that you take things not too seriously. Wait until you finally have a stable relationship and until you have talked a couple of times already about getting married. Certain factors also come in play: financial stability, work, and future plans are to be considered.
Do Not Hide The Engagement Ring In Your Dessert.
Or in her champagne or with any food for that matter. As comical as it may seem, she might swallow or choke on the engagement ring that you so preciously acquire. And hiding the ring together with the dessert is so cliché. It’s been done a million times in TV or movie and it has done its time. Try something else and be more creative. Help spice up your relationship more by being creative.
Proposing to the woman you truly love is a tough job. With all the preparations you need and all the hassles and stress you encounter, all you need in the end is the word “YES” but sometimes with some foil ups, the word might become the opposite. Follow these helpful tips and hope you can find the right answer. Good luck!
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